The Orthodox camp is neurotic. They hear everything as either praising their heritage or attacking their heritage. It's exhausting being with them. They epitomize self-centeredness. In the end, it's just boring and a waste of time, no matter how beautiful they seem on the surface.
Neurotics live in a permanent condition of scarcity and threat, no matter how abundant and secure their lives are.
Neurosis is the psychological manifestation of insecure abundance.